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Old Nov 04, 2018, 03:04 PM
Anonymous53987
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
As far as enmeshment, it can happen with an ethical T. My T has good boundaries and I'm still overly attached to her. I didn't want to get attached. But it happened.
In which case, you are attached and not enmeshed. Enmeshed is a mutual mess and is characterised by the therapist having poor boundaries. Until you have experienced a professional having poor boundaries, the horror of enmeshment is hard to conceptualise.
Thanks for this!
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