I don't know, but I really struggle with this issue. I am probably struggling worse because I am just starting with a new T.

I know my old T used to care ALOT about me and think about me. Her words and actions showed it to me....I was with her 5 years.

But now, it's all new again. Trying to feel whether this person sitting across from me really cares or is just using me as a "cash-cow."
I hate it.