Hey Fuzzy,

My take on these things is that the people whose best approach it is to tell to 'get over it' and that righteous anger, justified anger is wrong, really aren't looking at it properly.

And telling you - or anybody- to get over it is just plain rude, especially if it's taken a lot of forethought and courage to open up in the first place - it's hurtful Fuzzy, not good.

It may take some practise but you're completely in your rights to stand your ground to these people Fuzzy - if that's what you'd like to do.

A Fuzzybear never needs to get over herself and stop being goodhearted. I'm real sorry life in the human world is so rough Fuzzy, yes, the peace of the forest is better. I struggle in the world too. It's like being surrounded by enemies half the time. But that's my own issue.

I wish I had a more complete answer...

Sending peace and love back to you (((Fuzzybear)))