If she met someone nice IRL I would be very happy for her. Fewer to no messages would hurt but would be worth it I think. I obviously don't have as much invested here as if she lived down the street, at the very least I am her friend, I like to see my friends happy.

I went many years alone but not feeling lonely but the past year that changed and it is a terrible feeling and this is as good as I can do and it will do just fine.

Thanks