Well.. I'm going to feel stupid saying this. He had a 'moment' with a close friend where she untied and took off his shoes. It sounds so silly saying it out loud. I guess it's one of those things where you have to have been there.
Well... He was on the receiving end. it's not like he was taking off her shoes all seductively. It woudl have seemed rude to kick her away haha. Plus he walked straight over to me afterward as if to comfort me.
So I guess in the situation he acted appropriately?