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Old Nov 05, 2018, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by whispershadow View Post
The success one I'd say yes there is, they dont sound to be accepting you unless you succeed in whatever they want you to succeed in. I think it's maybe the same for wellbeing.

Saying "I care about you" means exactly that, they care about you as a person not what you can or cannot do.
I agree with Whispershadow. I would much rather someone say they care about me than they say they care about my success or my well being. Usually former T would say she cared about me. But if I had a hard time with SH or SI she would say she cared about my well being. Like trying to make it important to me that I not hurt myself or worse. But saying I care about you is more inclusive and just all around a more accepting statement imho. Kit.
Thanks for this!
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