Unsure I how this goes but for us,

We make sure to write out the journal of those whom the experiences belonged too and those whom learn later. It will be that way until they blend, I'm sure whole people singleton will remain to feel splintered about certain things in society....I think what is helpful is knowing who is hide crying so that we don't do that much invalidatation. A part of acceptance is to moving on I'm in a patch were I actually want it can only manage a few trickles of tears. Probably because crying was unsafe especially for males in the syst. By the way, I count all o fmy wimpers and sad faces....