Hey guys....maybe I can be the "test" case. I had a 5yr. relationship w/my last t. It was very close and I had major transference going on. Caused me to think I was insane sometimes. It's a long story, but he had problems I was unaware of and he just disaqppeared one day.

PLEASE DO NOT let this trigger anybody's abandonment fears. This was a MOST unusual case. However, I have been seeing a new t. for 1 1/2yrs. now and I keep wondering (& fearing) about transference again. I can tell you that I am v e r y s l o w l y starting to see some familiar feelings creeping in YIKES!!! I'm doing the best I can to let things happen naturally and not run away as fast as I can. It helps immensely that my t. is super sensitive to what happened to me and how it makes me skittish

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