Yeah. That's what I was thinking.
He knows I've been dealing with my own stuff and have started therapy. He sent me a good night text Friday night but I neither of us made contact Saturday or Sunday. This text conversation happened Monday morning. Evidently she died Sunday night. Not sure when he found out as we live (not together) about four states away from his family.
This is my MO. Feel guilty about everything. Even if it has nothing to do with me.