Some people can be so vulnerable and lonely they are willing to accept anything.
I believe there is a gullibility that occurs when desperate to love and be loved. The scam artist preys upon this weakness and grooms their victim accordingly. I would bet on the fact that the victims are ultra lonely with a low self-esteem and poor sense of self-worth. Being told all the right things makes them feel better - worthwhile, valued, and loved. They are willing to look the other way in order to hear these things.
I know of such people who swear they are in serious internet relationships that refuse to hear some common sense. They are so wrapped up in the idea of being with someone that they are blind to the obvious.
It is all very sad.
The solution is to practice a safe online presence. The solution is to never make a friendship online with someone you have never met in real life. I strongly believe and encourage this. Don't ever fall into the trap of becoming entangled with someone on the internet no matter how sincere they seem - not even friends of friends. Yes, my strong opinion but I say better to be safe than sorry.
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