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Old Nov 06, 2018, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Dear T,
I hate myself so much. Seriously, what is wrong with me? Why can’t i just accept “I care about your success”? I’ll just terminate so you won’t have to deal with my crazy self anymore. And so I won’t keep not getting enough from you.
LT

Your emotions don't have to make sense. (Although they make sense to me). It is completely valid for you to feel upset that your T will only say, "I care about your success." He isn't getting the emotional component. In my experience, one can't heal emotional trauma from intellectualizing. I am so sorry you are going through this.
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