I’m honest with my tdoc and my pdoc. Like you, I feel that it is not anybody else’s business (like my pcp and other providers) so I’m vague with my answers or don’t answer. I even had my physical therapy place try to ask me ridiculous questions and I wasn’t having it. That’s just me.

I’ve learned to be careful how I answer things outside of my pdoc and tdoc. I once told one of my doctor’s nurses how I was feeling and they were going to call the cops on me. My pdoc has to get involved and say I was ok and I have these thoughts frequently. Never again.