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Originally Posted by WishfulThinker66
As soon as you said Russian, that broke it for me. Yes, I realise I am painting one culture with a single brush but I am not kidding when I say, "Stay away." This is sooooooooo common. Of course she says what you want to hear. I can't say enough how wary you should be. You are much better off in the real life world. Don't get hooked, lined, and sinkered here. It won't be long before she is asking for money. This scam is all toooooooooo common. I am not kidding. Please, as difficult as it may be, concentrate on the real world.
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I am not wealthy and she spends a lot of time for how little she could potentially scam from me if that is her goal.
The thing is that she doesn't tell me what I want to hear, she knows I am down on myself and gets after me about it which is kind of annoying. I don't like getting compliments and she knows it. It really bothers me but she does it anyway.
I am cautious, she doesn't know anything that could be used against me or to steal my identity or whatever. She hasn't asked or hinted either. If she is a scammer, she is extremely inefficient given the time spent vs potential reward if it is successful.At worst, it is a very fun waste of my time.
I am not big on judging people based on stereotypes.
Thank you though, I like hearing all perspectives.
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