I dontīthink I have any obligations towards her after what she did to me. It isnīt a matter of not needing further contact, itīs the opposite, and thatīs why I now decided to ghost her. To leave her a message about cancelling the phone session would only give the impression that Iīm fine and that Iīm ok with us now ending when itīs actually all very traumatic to me.
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Originally Posted by ArtleyWilkins
I don't understand the reason for simply not having left a message or something that no further contact is needed or desired. Just seems inconsiderate to accept an appointment and not have the courtesy to simply cancel. You could have called the church or her number after hours and just left a message for her or something; it wouldn't have even required speaking to her personally. Just seems like this "ghosting" is a just creating more difficulty for you, whereas taking active control and actually actively cancelling would have been a more powerful decision.
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