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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
You depend on him too much, even when you were unhappy and ended the relationship you are hoping he will miss you and try to get you back. He is not going to give you what you need, never really did so you have to cut him loose and learn how to focus on yourself. It sounds like you don't know how to focus on yourself and may even avoid that by giving your attention to others that don't even appreciate it.
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Thank you! Yeah, you’re right! We’re not together because when we were we fought constantly. I do remember telling myself multiple times that I didn’t want to be with him anymore, now I’m away and I’m still obsessed with him. Somehow I feel it’s necessary for me to go through what I’m feeling, there is a lesson to be learned! I look forward to a couple of months from now and see what the outcome is. Maybe I won’t be so trusting when it comes to me or my feelings, not every person that says that is a good person truly is! I always felt that you showed your love with your actions not with words. He was all nice while he was trying to get me to date him but changed very quickly. I think that I’ll focus on healing and taking better care of myself!!! Even if I have to cry every single day I know I will get over this!