Hi socksbaby.

Sometimes we say things we don't mean in the heat of the moment....when we allow our emotions to get in the way. However, in my opinion there is no good reason for you to be contacting this ex boyfriend. I understand that you feel dejected and angry toward him, but the necklace was a 'gift' in happier times.....what he does with it is up to him. I'm thinking that you asking for its return may be an attempt to control and cause hurt....which is normal after a breakup. But my advice is to simply move forward, create new happy memories with someone new....breaking up is part of life.