He is a first class manipulator. Your fights wirh him are probably you reacting to his crap.

From my personal experience in a marriage that was non stop fighting except when around other people it was a hell that I should have stopped living in long before I did. Should I have changed to accomodate my H & stop the fighting???? NO WAY!!!! He was the one that was wrong. We should NOT lower our standards to accomidate someone who it is obvious is a manipulator.

He broke up with you & now wonders why you are blocking him out if your life so he can't hurt you any more than he has...& is trying to make you feel guilty about it? What a jerk. He was the one who broke up with you or has he forgotten all about that little fact? Manipulators are good at forgetting facts.

Then the question is. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like that? Do you really love him or do you love what you wish he would be like & the relationship you WISH it was like....not what it really is?

If you unblick him & get back together how long before he does this to you again? How long before he starts doing things ypu can't tolerate & start fighting again? Is this what you learned growing up that relationships are like? (It is very dysfunctional & it may just be because you are reacting to his dysfunction)

You really need to analize what you really want in a relationship & whether he can REALLY provide what you need or want. Questions you need to ask yourself honestly before you ever return to this relationship.

His playing so innocent is just a really HUGE red flag you need to be aware of.