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Old Nov 09, 2018, 09:34 AM
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He is very selfish, I don’t want to continue having feelings for this person, I just want to be “normal” again.
it just takes time to have those feelings go away. That is how abusive people keep their abused around them. They treat them nice just enough for that person who is desperate to be treated nice to stick around for those nice times & the good feeling they get from the person the few times they do treat them nice. The abused perdon also holds onto the wishful thinking that if that person can be nice some of the time then THEY WILL CHANGE & be nice all the time if they just do what that person wants. It never happen but dreaming that it will keeps them trapped.

Normal will come again....just stay strong. You can do it.
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