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just remember that the mind has been PROVEN to have neuroplasticity (the ability to learn & change). Just because a person sees things one way doesn't mean that their mind can't learn to be more mindful to see the big picture of life, people & what is REALLY going on around them. You don't have to feel that you are stuck being this way forever.
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This is true eskie, and what I am trying to help Deyla understand is that she is always going to be a conscientious person and that can present these challenges she has shared experiencing here in this thread. A conscientious person is apt to "hurt" more than a person who lacks conscientious abilities. A conscientious person is going to experience more guilt and shame than a person who lacks conscientious abilities too. That is why her blocking him is causing her more anxiety than it is for him too. A conscientious person will "wait" and is more "patient" then a person who lacks can be. Conscientious individuals are more apt to "hesitate" too. Actually one of the things that had to be trained out of men who go off and fight is how that conscientious part of them caused them to hesitate which cost them and others their lives in battle.
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I texted him this morning that every morning I am expecting a message from him but when he doesn’t it just shows me how little he cared for me.
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He doesn't have it to care Deyla. You keep hoping for something that's just not there. You are conscientious, he is NOT. Understand?