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Old Nov 09, 2018, 03:33 PM
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A consciencious person does NOT have to be sentenced to being hurt more for the rest of their life. That negates the knowledge that the mind is neuroplastic & can learn better ways of thinking. To use the excuse that someone who is consciencious is going to be hurt more the rest of their life is an excuse to continue to stay in the victim role.
I am not saying that a conscientious person is doomed to being hurt the rest of their life. What I am trying emphasize to Deyla is that she can understand this about herself and learn to identify the red flags she experiences in others that will NEVER appreciate her. eskie, you and I both know that I myself have struggled with this challenge.
Thanks for this!
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