I need some help. So my therapist wants to speak to my parents about my behaviors as a child to better understand my behaviors as an adult. Im cool with my therapist talking to my dad. With my mom not so much( she wants to talk to her mainly because she was my primary care giver) Anyway my mother has been rude to me in the past saying you worry to much about that stuff, you obsess and if anything had happened to you, you would have never forgotten it. She also changes her story often. She told me that when I was 8 that I told my father I wanted to give him oral sex and that I told this woman I wanted to touch her breasts. Yet now she says she never said that and swears nothing ever happened to me. My mom can be manipulative, making herself look like the ultimate mother ( when in actuality she emotionally abused me from as young as I can remember until 19 when i moved out) She likes to make me look sh*tty. So what would you do?