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Old Nov 10, 2018, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Dnester View Post
My mother lives 1 and 1/2 hours away. I was in the hospital for a month and she did not bother to come see me. She doesnt come visit me. I know she will not drive all that way to talk about something she hates talking about. The reason why I want this is to get answers that may be helpful to me now. My fear is that my therapist will treat me different after my manipulative mother talks to her.
Thank you for clarifying.

From what you describe, I just don't see your mother providing the answers you want. That would be my primary worry - that it would just be an upsetting waste of time. I don't find it as likely that your T's view of you would somehow be poisoned after talking with your mother. You could always talk to your T about this worry.
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Thanks for this!
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