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Originally Posted by SorryNorma
I am not justifying her behaviour, but it seems unlikely to me that your response to her, attitude to therapy, and feelings of trust won't have changed in the light of her doing something as significant as reporting your abuser. Reporting is a big thing to bring into the relationship; something has surely shifted in the between.
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I hear what you are saying and it’s inevitable that things would change between us.
I did change towards her directly after the reporting but I feel my ambivalence and resistance towards her is gone, yes, there is still a little anger towards her but I don’t express it unless she says something I don’t agree with.