A friend of mine that was kind of a part-time room mate until he got divorced took it Sunday when he came to get the few little things he had there in the guest bedroom. (He was such a good friend that when he found out I quit - he refused to bring alcohol in my house out of respect).

I think it's mean too. I think it would be different if he didn't know, but the fact is he did, and my mom even reminded him.