Hi there L.P. It sounds like your accepting the reality of the situation as it is. It is what it is. You feel whatever it is that you feel.
Sometimes I wonder if when I go through this myself the very hardest part will be dealing with other people who think I should feel ______ more than what I do. Within myself I know that whatever feelings different parts bring forth with them will be the "right" feelings for them to have about their perspective on the situation.

However it goes for you, take really good care of yourself through all of this.