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Originally Posted by ennie
You may not be able to find out whether he is or is not a safe person on the first date. It may take a few more dates to find out. However, trust your instinct. If you get a strange gut feeling, then don't ignore it. I agree with others to just ask him general questions about himself at first. Also, be careful what you share with him about yourself.
Good luck!
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Thanks. I haven't told him anything deeply personal and don't intend to at this point. Talked to him on the phone today. He seems nice but like he's anxious to meet. I'm not feeling good mentally right now and don't want to meet so soon. Feel like he is rushing because he wants to see what my whole self looks like as he's only seen a head shot. He wants to meet while it's his off time from work and I don't want to meet yet.
I told him I'm having sleep problems and need to get some sleep and he kept on talking a lot and he said we could get some coffee and meet near me. He doesn't seem to want to listen that I'm not ready to meet.
I feel like he is rushing me to meet. That doesn't necessarily say he's not safe because many guys want to meet right away. I don't know what to do now. I may just call it all off.
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