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Originally Posted by Dnester
She is a Lcsw trained in Emdr. She is not supervised. Owns own practice. I get the feeling she wants to talk to my mom because she thinks my mom sexually abused me and wants to get some clues because she brought it up after she asked if my mom was sexually abused. She said who was she abused by snd I said idk she wont tell me. She said I really wish your mom would come in for a session. If she prodes to much at my mother she will lose her *****.
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But she doesn't need 'clues' to know whether something happened. That's not how therapy works. Therapy is not about uncovering things that you can't remember happening. There's a very real thing called 'false memories'. You can remember things that never actually happened. Therapy is about working with the things that currently bother you and remember to manage better in the now.
The reason why so many people here say they wouldn't want their parents talking to their T is because it's not a usual thing to happen and not something that is needed for therapy to work. Your parents don't know what currently bothers you, what you struggle with, how you feel. They might know stuff you don't, but that shouldn't be relevant for you to get better.