It sounded to me like the implicit question in asking your T if you are broken, is does she believe in you. Correct me if I am wrong. I think intellectual solutions ask you to define yourself, which seems to be where your T is coming from. I suspect that this is the end goal, but it is a long process and it doesn't sound like you are there yet. Emotionally, it sounds as if you are asking if your T believes in you, if she believes you can get better. I think those are valid questions. I do hope that you honor your feelings of being hurt by your T, that you accept that this is a part of you and that it is okay to feel however you feel. I hope you keep us updated, if that is what you want.