heres a thought.... since you seem to know what others inside are feeling and what they want to do (co consciousness) maybe you can sit down and think inside and ask them why they want to do this. maybe there is something going on that has made you and your system triggered and the need to go home is there.

another thought is that many including me here have this urge to isolate during depression and it is the time of year when most people have depression symptoms. maybe you can talk with your therapist to see if this is depression and maybe there is something that will help with this.