Although the holidays can be very challenging, in a number of ways, I am not invested in hating them.
I am very interested in identifying the things I like about the holidays.
I agree with ~Christina and CrT0811! Looking for the positives will bring the positives to light!
if I am going to expend energy, both mental and physical, I am going to invest in trying to find some positives and expand upon them. For me, this is a much more rewarding way to invest time and energy.
This makes the holidays more enjoyable and more rewarding!
Just my own experience.

WC