No, I'm not comfortable judging anyone that way. It bothers me a lot. I don't judge my friends that way either. However, I think it's purely about physical attraction, not my feelings for her. I like and love her for the qualities that make her an excellent T for me, and I admire her for other reasons. I don't think it's superficial though. It's the way I'd have to feel about a partner, at least at first. I can't help it that I'm attracted to her. Part is probably maternal, too. She's comforting. It's a package deal. A lot is transference, but I do believe my T is pretty!