How about going to the courthouse with just the closest family who needs to be there? Let your father walk you down the “aisle” and give you away. Then take them out to the nicest restaurant for lunch.

My sister had to scrap her expensive wedding and rush to marry before my father died, and the above is just what she did.

How much can a couple of lunches and a bottle of wine cost? A cute little bouquet or even just a corsage for you and your mom.