Thank you, OE and Sisabel!

Yes, I am sure they just want to share in our happiness. I can also present a party afterwards with them, which is what we would like to do.

OE, he's met them many times now. They love him.

A letter isn't a bad idea. I am worried I may get upset if they push me. I am not good at confrontation, especially with my own family. But in person is probably best. I am sure they would much rather have me tell them in person.