Thank you for the reply. Thankfully, the relationship was restored because I was willing to change my views, that's how much this relationship meant to me. Sometimes that is hard, when something we believe so strong in has ended up tearing our hearts apart, in the past. certainly we should not let the past ruin our present and future relationships. We should learn by the past in a positive way, but never forget the negative aspect of it, because both together, the positive and the negative of the past situation, help to mold our thinking, from that day forward. Certainly, it is not inappropriate for either mate to have friends of the opposite sex. There should be appropriate times to be texting though and the texts should remain transparent, to eliminate any suspicion. Have a great week and stay positive in your mind.