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Originally Posted by octoberful
The ethical guidelines state it's ok to do after 2 years as long as other certain conditions are considered. So, it's not asking about unethical behavior (if that's what you meant).
For me, it would be more like asking if he ever cheated on his wife.
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Fair enough.
I'd still personally consider it extremely weird and suspect even after two years, something like a teacher who started dating a former student after they turned 18. Maybe not technically "unethical," but I think it speaks volumes about someone that they'd date a person they met in a situation of such power differential. I'd think there was either something predatory or over-enmeshed/rescuing in their personality.
So, yeah, if I felt the need to ask I just wouldn't see the T at all.
But that's just my opinion. To each their own.