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Originally Posted by unaluna
Or see a separate couples counselor with the gf. Whats her issue? She wants the holiday to be just you and her, or with her family? What is her relationship with your kids? Can she join your family holiday gatherings? Does your ex bring a partner?
You have another ten years with your youngest child, at least. Does your gf want her own child? Who do you live with, i.e., is there shared custody?
Sorry! But it sounds like gf thinks you are having your cake and eating it too, and she doesnt even get fruitcake? Idk.
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1. She thinks we need to start our own traditions even though we have a commitment to our kids (my EW and I) that we have fulfilled the last 7 years.
2. the relationship with my kids is good. She's respectful and treats them age appropriately.
3. I have asked her to join in. She is hesitant due to anxiety that she suffers from.
4. In the past, yes, my ex has brought a partner. never an issue
5. She has two of her own, and I have a vasectomy, so no further children.
6. I live on my own, with a shared custody agreement with my EW.