Lot of people take people for granted and think they have some rightto have call on your time when it suits them. I have a friend who gets all his work done and then thinks i have nothing to do but spend time in coffee shop.

at weekend he is with his family . i do not have family my folks are dead. but when he has no one else calles me.. i do not go as would not let someone take advantage of me like that. all of my so called friends seem to be users

He is a decent person though he may not be aware he does it. or i am depressed or paranoid