I know I'm a bit early, but I was thinking of the Holidays approaching in a little over a month, and how it is a time of gift-giving to those you care for.

When it comes to T, what is your view on gift-giving? Is it a boundary crossing, since the therapeutic relationship is not the same as one has with friends/family members? I've been thinking about this topic.

I'm not sure yet, but I'm thinking of getting my T something simple, not anything extravagant and expensive, like, I don't know, a box of cookies/chocolate along with a card thanking her for being there for the past 2 years? But also I'm thinking she might not accept it and then it would be awkward.

Have you ever given something like this to your T? How did they respond? Really need some advice. Good idea or bad idea?