LL, the decision is up to you. If you are 25-they don’t have a say in anything you do. I would have gone anyway-but that’s just me. I also didn’t live with parents when I was 25. But even when I did live with them as a very young adult- (until I was 20) once I turned 18-I made it very clear it was my life, I would do whatever I wanted and if they didn’t like it-it’s fine-I would just go.
I think once you are no longer angry you can sit and tell your parents that you are an adult, you want the respect of being treated as such and that you will not not allow them to have that type of control over your life going forward.