I am female and see a male therapist, and I'm happy with him. I don't think I would feel very comfortable talking about my sex life in detail but that's not something that comes up in therapy for me. Now and then I have to point out to him ways that his experience is different from mine, but that is interesting because it makes me aware of how being a woman changes my perspective. Like I always feel like I need to prove I'm competent because people assume I'm not, he thinks the opposite.

It really depends on the person, though, what your past experiences and current issues are. I would say that if it's not an immediate no, then it's worthwhile to go see this T and see how it goes.