I'm female, but I've often been told that my energy feels very masculine. Most of my close friends are men although I do have two close female friends. My (now deceased) therapist was an older gay man, and his energy was actually fairly feminine. We had an interesting dynamic. He taught me how to be more in touch with my feminine side, how to be softer and more vulnerable.

I've had male and female therapists in the past (more male than female), but never for more than 3 or 4 sessions. None of these other people worked out.

My conclusion is that most therapists are terrible, regardless of gender.