My feelings on organised religion have been laid out before and this is just one such example of why I am troubled with it. From what I know of the beliefs around Jesus this is so far removed from what sort of individual he was and the practices he kept that this sort of behaviour is highly questionable. I don't mean to attack your faith and Church but to me anyone that makes such demands is not something in good conscious ethical or even moral. Is it possible for you to explore what else is available out there within your faith group that does operate on ethical grounds. Furthermore, your spiritual guide is not a professional and I would try to remember that when considering their 'recommendations' and demands. As for the tithing, I'd like you to consider the true motive behind this requirement and heavy leaning on you to do so. Look around you at the church and the clergy that run it. What kind of lifestyles do they lead? Is the church in dire need of funds to operate? I really encourage you to ask yourself these things. You are already questioning the legitimacy of these things else you would not have posted. Continue to do so. If you are looking for an acknowledgment of your worry, consider that done.