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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Say I try to rehash the whole thing with my sister again, what do I want at this point? I have already been Stonewalled and cried for a month, and Stonewalled again for a few weeks more. All she had to say was ‘I’m sorry too that I did not try to make peace when I could have and judged you so harshly’, but she refused any fault.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with her saying to not bring it up again, but.. that's not to say that the issues that continue to exist should not be addressed somehow. Maybe rehashing the argument isn't the thing you should do. Waiting til things have died down a bit and talking about the challenges and issues you have in a more respectful conversation would be better. Not saying that's easy or even possible but it's probably not the "argument" subject matter that is the problem than it is the respect or lack thereof, that is causing the problem (guessing it's a life long repeated matter)