If you've read and replied my previous posts, you're going to say "we told you so".
I've moved to the USA from the UK to live with my husband and it's just bad.
It's affecting my mental health massively. I get depression and anxiety, which i am usually able to manage.
But I've got here and my husband still isn't working, sleeps all day, is awake all night. I've barely been here that long and we haven't spent much awake time together, as I sleep at night. He moved back home with his parents after selling his property so we could travel last year, so I have moved into his parents also. They completely turn a blind eye to how he lives, despite them being incredibly hard working.
I .unable to work yet as I haven't received my social security number and green card in the post yet. It should be here within the next three weeks. I have applied for jobs so I'm ready to go. I go insane without work.
I'm really struggling. He hasn't prepared anything for me to move here. He emptied out a drawer for me to put my stuff in a few days after I got here after I constantly nagged him too. I'm sat holed up in his room, in the dark on a sunny day.
I've mentioned to him that I have had replies to jobs I have applied for and he has made a hundred excuses why I can't and shouldn't do each one.
I feel like I'm going to snap, back my stuff and catch the next flight home. Part of me wanted to make the most of the opportunity for a new life. And it's just not happened.
I know if he had decided to move to England, I would have got everything in order before I moved. It makes me sad.
When I met him he had a huge house, a good paying job, he was motivated, excited about life. We used to go out on adventures all the time, we barely stayed in. This isn't what I signed up for. I'm broken hearted. I've been in denial for so long. Waiting for the first impression him to come back.