I'm a woman - Only seen the one T, he's male. I didn't ask for/want a male T and was surprised when he turned up to call me back the first time. He has one of those androgynous names and, for whatever reason, I just assumed he was a woman.

It's been fine. He's been helpful and empathetic and non-threatening. I don't talk about sex stuff or "woman's issues" much - I think I'd prefer a female T for that.

It's okay to not want to see a male T. They're pretty used to that, from what I've read. It's okay not to want to see a female T, too. You don't owe anyone an explanation.