The reasons why he isn't working is because, he took a sebatical last year so that we could go travel for a couple of months. We were both finding long distance hard and we had to wait a year to get my visa for me to move. When he got back, his job said he had been gone longer than he had agreed so they wouldn't let him come back. He has promised to find employment elsewhere but he hasn't.
He is studying online school. But I mean, both my sisters are studying for degrees and they work over full time hours, I know tons of people who study and have kids, work, busy lives etc. He has said he will fully support me once he finishes his degree and gets a job, but that's a year to eighteen months away and the way things have been, it's hard to wait around and put trust into that promise.