You said your relationship was great yet he physically assaulted you the first time you two met and overall acted off the wall. I am wondering if he was in some kind of manic state when he was adrventotous because he clearly isn’t now.

Also some people pretend in order to get someone hooked. He stopped pretending after he got you. He wasn’t working or showering or maintaining healthy life style for awhile, and you still moved in with him, so he stopped pretending awhile ago.

He expects his wife to be with him 24/7 but he likely expects to eat too. If neither of you would work or just stay home 24/7 then how does he expect to survive? Who is going to feed you two? He makes no sense

I am also concerned about your daughter. It can’t be good for her to see her mother living this way, regardless of her age.