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Old Nov 17, 2018, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted by weaverbeaver View Post
It’s so hard, isn’t it? Surely this isn’t supposed to happen in therapy.
I can’t even talk to my t about it. I have talked to her once about it but I don’t think she really got it. She knows my attachment is very strong and in fairness to her there has been many times that she could have terminated me but she didn’t.
Have you talked to your t about it? Sorry it’s so hard too
Nope. I haven't. He himself told me that I'm his "most strongly attached" client and the "only one" who worries about him dying etc. He said "at least the only one who admits it" So he knows the feelings are strong but I can't get the courage yet to tell him I can't do this anymore, partly because I know he wont care and that hurts
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