Yes, I agree, Divine, and most especially if he has been violent.

Hayhayhay1986, I am very sorry for the trouble you have found yourself in. Has he been violent towards you once before? IF so, please DO seriously consider leaving. If not, I would seriously consider leaving anyways.

This man led you down a path of roses, only to find that they're full of thorns.

He should have prepared much better for your move and to set you up financially. To move yourself to a completely different country for someone, only to live at their parents home, with no work, no money and no way to live on your own together? And now you're depressed... of course you are, I would be too!

And his plans? To support you once he's done with school in a year plus? Was that the plan BEFORE you moved there, or did he switch directions on you and tell you this once you got there? And are YOU supposed to now support HIM financially for the entire time while he's in school and once you get a job? Were you aware of the fact before you moved that he planned on not working while you work and support the two of you?

Who the heck sells their home, leaves their job and then offers marriage to someone and offers for them to come live with their parents in another country while that person remains unemployed????? This is INSANE. This man is completely irresponsible.

And the fact that he deters you from one position after another? Something is very off here, and very wrong. If I were you, I would walk away from this situation... not walk but RUN. He is not doing you any favors, and there are many red flags. I would pack your bags immediately.