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Originally Posted by Waterloo12345
Of course he cares- you wrote elsewhere that he replies to you when he doesn't do it others, he wants to reply to you, he tells you things. I am not suggesting inappropriate care at all. But he cares, at least from those of your posts that you aren't putting yrself and him down.
It would be an interesting exercise for you to print out all your posts/comments here and redfit (if that is you) and read all together because they are inconsistent, depending, I assume, on your mood. But there is a thread of care running through them. A thread of ?fear? Of what that means, and then ghosting. Please talk about ghosting with him if you can. Gotta rush sorry
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I know he cares, FOR NOW.... but my point was that generally therapists don't care when clients leave, it's the clients choice and they find new people for their slots. It's not like he would care really if I leave, it wont effect him, he would probably have my slot filled within a week. That's what I mean, I am very well aware of the harsh crap reality of this relationship
Also, no way I'd ever share with him any of my forum posts, if I could, I'd delete them all. If I want him to know something, I tell him but he really doesn't need to know everything.
Yes, in regards to my post here, he USED TO reply when he didn't for others, but that is no longer a thing, I'm not allowed to email. so that has changed